Why I Decided to Recommit to Learning German—And Why You Should, Too
How Embracing Discomfort and Consistent Practice Are Helping Me Break Language Barriers in Germany
I’ve been living in Germany for over ten years now. You’d think by this time my German would be near perfect—but I’m here to confess that it’s not. In fact, my German language skills haven’t quite caught up to my many years of living here, and it’s something I’m actively working on changing.
My Journey with the German Language
When I arrived in Germany, I enrolled in a master’s program taught in English. Then I worked for several startups in Berlin where everyone spoke English in day-to-day work. It turned out English was just enough to get by—especially in the tech scene—so I never really had to immerse myself fully in German.
On top of that, I’ve always had a bit of a struggle with language learning. It goes back to childhood; languages were my weakest subjects in both 10th and 12th grade. While I’ve picked up some everyday German—enough to manage grocery shopping, doctor visits, and quick chats with neighbors—my grammar is shaky, and my vocabulary is limited.
Now that I’ve started my venture, Destination Germany, I’m feeling the need to step up my German game so I can communicate more effectively in broader, more formal contexts. That’s why I enrolled in classes at my local Volkshochschule (VHS). I attend twice a week for a total of three hours. It’s not always fun—it pushes me out of my comfort zone—but it’s forcing me to improve my grammar, learn new vocabulary, and practice speaking regularly.
Why Learning the Local Language Matters
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is the importance of learning the local language if you want to thrive in a new country. Whether it’s for building meaningful relationships, accessing better career opportunities, or even just navigating bureaucratic processes, language skills can be a real game-changer.
Evidence from Research
According to a 2021 study by the Federal Office for Migration and Refugees (BAMF), migrants who reach at least the B2 level of German proficiency are significantly more likely to find stable employment and integrate seamlessly into the community. This finding echoes similar results from the German Federal Employment Agency, which suggests that the likelihood of securing a job that matches your qualifications increases substantially if you have strong German language skills.
Additionally, the Goethe-Institut emphasizes that language courses not only help with everyday communication but also foster cultural understanding, which is crucial for building a life in a new country. Being able to converse with native speakers opens doors to forming deeper connections, participating in local events, and ultimately feeling at home.
Overcoming the Challenges
Learning a new language—especially one like German with its complex grammar rules—can be daunting, but here are some steps that have helped me push through the discomfort:
Regular Classes: Consistency is key, so attending classes every week keeps me on track.
Speaking Practice: I try to speak German at every opportunity, even if it means making mistakes in front of my neighbors or the cashier at the supermarket.
Cultural Immersion: I watch German movies, read news articles in German, and follow German influencers on social media.
Patience with Mistakes: I remind myself that progress takes time, and errors are part of the journey.
Final Thoughts
If you’re planning to move to a country where English isn’t the primary language—or if you’re already living in one—invest in learning the local language. It might feel overwhelming at first, but the benefits are immeasurable. From better integration to expanded career horizons, fluency truly unlocks the best of what your new home has to offer.
For me, going back to classes at the VHS has been a positive step forward. Sure, it’s a few hours out of my busy week, but it’s making a clear difference. And if my story resonates with you—whether you’re a fellow expat in Germany or heading somewhere else entirely—I encourage you to do the same. Embrace the challenge, get comfortable with being uncomfortable, and watch as your confidence (and opportunities) grow along with your language skills.
Have you started learning a new language, or are you thinking about it? Share your experiences or tips in the comments below. I’d love to hear about your journey!
I'm learning German, while living in England. I'm using a mix of Duolingo and podcasts like Easy German. I hope to a certain German speaking country this year!