Should I Return to India Forever? Weighing the Pros and Cons
Reasons why I might NOT want to go back to India forever and the reasons why I might want to go back to India forever!
While the title of my blog sounds counterintuitive to what I do daily, it is not. What I truly believe is the fact that “moving abroad transforms your life“. You get a completely different perspective in life which helps you to become someone kinder, mentally stronger, knowledgable, less judgemental, and more empathetic.
Whether to return to India forever is a deeply personal and complex choice. Like many people who have lived abroad for an extended period, I find myself torn between the familiarity of my homeland and the opportunities and conveniences of life elsewhere. Here’s an honest look at the reasons that sway me in both directions.
Why I Might Not Want to Return to India Forever
The Unfairness in the System
One of the most discouraging aspects of life in India is the prevalence of systemic corruption. Whether bribery in government offices or navigating red tape in real estate transactions, the process often feels like an uphill battle. I’ve witnessed this firsthand, as my father faced hurdles with commercial tax and real estate dealings that seemed impossible to resolve without “extra payments.”
This unfairness is present everywhere:
Public Health: Poor-quality healthcare facilities, especially for the average citizen.
Education: Public schools often lack resources and infrastructure.
Safety and Infrastructure: Bad roads, inadequate public safety measures, and neglected public utilities leave much to be desired.
The Driving Experience
Driving in India can be a frustrating and even hazardous experience:
Pothole-ridden roads and poorly maintained highways, despite paying hefty tolls and road tax.
Reckless drivers, vehicles without tail lights, and excessive honking create constant stress.
The polluted air often seeps into your car, particularly when entering cities, villages, or towns.
Cleanliness and Hygiene
India still struggles with basic hygiene standards:
Cleanliness often feels like a myth, whether in public spaces or restaurants.
Food safety is another concern, as poor hygiene in food preparation is widespread.
Taxes Without Benefits
India's taxes are relatively high, but the return on this investment feels minimal. Public amenities remain underfunded or poorly managed, making one question where the tax money goes.
I think this below meme perfectly summarizes how exactly I feel about paying taxes in India:
Too Many Obligations
India’s social fabric is incredibly rich, but it also comes with obligations. Relatives and friends often expect you to attend every function or gathering, which can feel overwhelming.
Business Challenges
Running a business in India can be a test of patience. Many deals fall through due to unreliable partners, delayed processes, or bureaucratic inefficiencies.
Why I Might Want to Return to India Forever
Family and Friends
India’s strongest draw for me is the warmth of family and close friends. The support system is unparalleled and irreplaceable.
Affordable Domestic Help
Having access to affordable domestic help means less time spent on chores and more time to focus on productive pursuits. This convenience is a huge factor in improving quality of life.
The Sunlight
One cannot underestimate the joy of abundant sunlight in most parts of India. After years of gloomy winters abroad, the constant sunshine is a welcome change that lifts the spirit.
English-Speaking Environment
Despite India’s diversity of languages, English remains a dominant medium for communication in urban areas. This makes it easier to navigate daily life and conduct business.
Startup-Friendly Ecosystem
India has become a hub for startups, with a growing economy and ample opportunities for innovation. For someone with entrepreneurial ambitions, it’s an exciting environment to be a part of.
Opportunities to Build
India’s growing interest in studying and working abroad presents a unique opportunity. Using technology, media, and coding, I could create platforms to bridge gaps and help others achieve their dreams.
The Balancing Act
The decision to return to India forever is not easy. On one side, there’s the frustration of dealing with systemic inefficiencies, pollution, and daily inconveniences. On the other, there’s the pull of family, sunlight, and the chance to contribute meaningfully to a growing economy.
For now, I remain undecided. But as I weigh these factors, one thing is certain: the choice to stay or return is less about perfection and more about where I feel I can create the most meaningful life.
What about you? Have you faced a similar dilemma? Let me know your thoughts!